INSIGHTFUL, INSPIRING + INDISPENSABLE RESOURCES
NEWLY RELEASED, BY YOURS TRULY
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A journalling workbook designed to have you rediscover your innate traits of Grit, Grace + Gratitude.
After a lifetime of living through personal challenges, a decade of caring for parents, years of working with family caregivers, and over a year of interviewing amazing people whose lives have been transformed through loss, certain principles of resiliency came into sharp focus.
This book takes you through simple and thought-provoking exercises to clear away what might be holding you back, inspire you to live more of what you love, and ignite your powers of resiliency.
What makes this book unique is that it comes with built-in community. By joining the mailing list HERE, you’ll be invited to attend quarterly virtual live meet-ups where we go over the content of the book and you meet other like-minded individuals from around the world.
Click HERE to hear me talk about what the book is all about with co-author, Deb Kelsey-Davis on THE AFTER LIFE podcast.
Click HERE to hear me talk about Spinach Theology and the creation of the book on episode #147 of the TWO PASTORS’ PODCAST with Beth Scibienski + Michael Droege.
Watch the video and take a 12-second peek inside!
BECAUSE I STILL GET ASKED ABOUT CAREGIVING RESOURCES, THESE BOOKS + MEDIA ARE THE BEST IN THEIR FIELD TO QUICKLY GAIN A DEEPER UNDERSTANDING OF HOW TO BE THE BEST FAMILY CAREGIVER YOU ARE ABLE.
A well-organized guide to compassionately understanding Alzheimer's disease. This book, published in 2016, is ideal if you want finely edited and thorough information to get up to speed on a new diagnosis.
This book will allow you to apply real life practices that you can implement to understand better where your caree is coming from regarding behavior and what their needs are due to the invisible illness of Alzheimer's.
Wow, wow, and wow. If you are caring for a parent or parents, regardless of specific health issues, this is a must read. You'll laugh, you'll cry, but mostly you'll laugh. And gain new perspectives and invaluable tips + tricks that will enable you to caregive like a pro. A mix of personal history with practical advice for the reader, this book is a stand out in its field.
Why didn't this book exist when I was a caregiver?!?!?! Published in 2014 this book is the "What to Expect When You are Expecting" of caring for older adults. It contains everything, and I mean everything you need to know. If there is only one book from this list that you purchase, make it this one.
This book is an excellent resource from the start to finish of family caregiving. You are set up with a roadmap that begins with part-time assistance and moves to full-time assistance and provides tips on what do do during a crisis and how to prepare for unforeseen circumstances. If you are looking to take action steps toward preparing for shifting roles in the parent-child relationship, this is a practically focused must-read.
I must publicly thank Roz Chast for writing and illustrating this book so I don't have to create my own version. If you are caring for parents, this book will resonate for you with it's conflicted feelings, hilarious childhood flashbacks and somber reflections on what it means to take care of those who once cared for you. If you order any of the above books, consider this as the "do you want fries with that" add on. Remember, if you don't laugh at some of caregiving, all you'll do is cry.
Considered the bible of caring for someone with Alzheimer's disease. Comprehensive and perfect for us Type A's out there.
Just as the subtitle states, this book help you know, "What to say and do when life is scary, awful and unfair to people you love." If you have ever felt unsure about "the right thing to do" in a situation, this is a book that will leave you confident in expressing your empathy.
While not specifically about caregiving, this is an excellent book that explores what it means to get knocked off your feet and what it takes to pick yourself up off the floor.
DEMENTIA COMMUNICATION TRAINING
I can not recommend the professional and family dementia communication training offered through Tami Neumann and Cathy Braxton of Dementia Raw highly enough. It's Unscripted, Unconventional and Unapologetic training that equips you to handle everyday communication challenges as a caregiver. Marrying empathy and improv has proven to be a dynamic way to communicate with persons with dementia.
Keeping track of a loved one's medical and financial information is no small task. THE BINDER was my most trust-worthy tool when I was actively caregiving. You can receive the entire contents of THE BINDER and create your hardest working caregiving tool with the click of a button. See what's included and watch a short video on how to assemble it along with links to purchase everything you'll need to create one for yourself.
A poignant series about Alzheimer's disease and the effects on both the patients and their families. The episode, "Grandpa, Do You Know Who I Am", is wonderful to watch with children.
Groundbreaking. Earth-shattering. An absolute must watch if you are caring for someone with Alzheimer's. Follow Dan Cohen on his quest to bring the healing power of music to awaken the spirits of individuals with dementia. I know firsthand from caring for my Dad, how powerful music is in bringing joy to someone who is losing their ability to communicate.
You can watch this moving documentary's trailer HERE.
You can buy an iPod Shuffle HERE.
You can donate an iPod to the Music and Memory program HERE.
This is a 34-question checklist that can help identify people at greater risk for Alzheimer’s. It was created by a group of neuropsychiatrists and other experts from the International Society to Advance Alzheimer's Research and Treatment (ISTAART). This does not replace an evaluation by a physician but can give you a starting point to determine whether or not your suspicions of dementia are based in reality.
You can read a more detailed article titled "Personality Change May Be Early Sign of Dementia, Experts Say", about this checklist HERE.
This form is one I continually return to when discussions of "I'm so stressed" come up. How stressed are you? Well, one look at this chart and you'll be able to evaluate just how heavy a load you are carrying. This is one test you don't want to score well on, because as it advises, "The higher your life change score, the harder you have to work to get yourself back into a state of good health." Check it out HERE, if you dare.
If you have a loved one who lives alone, this form is a MUST HAVE. Created by a non-profit with the goal of saving lives, you fill this form out and place it on the refrigerator. It will contain all medical information – including allergies, medications, contact persons and more – all in one safe place. Recognized and Endorsed by Hospitals, EMTs, COAs, TRIAD’s, Municipal, Medical, Senior Citizen Organizations, Police, Sheriff’s, and Fire Departments. You can order a sample on their website or contact them to find who in your area supplies them. No senior who lives alone should be without one.
If you need help with Medicare, you can locate your state's office that can assist you with insurance questions.
SHIPs provide free, in depth, one-on-one insurance counseling and assistance to Medicare beneficiaries, their families, friends, and caregivers. SHIPs operate in all 50 states, the District of Columbia, Guam, Puerto Rico, and the U.S. Virgin Islands.